2014년 1월 29일 수요일

Friedrich Nietzsche Quotes



All things are subject to interpretation whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth.


To live is to suffer, to survive is to find some meaning in the suffering.



Hope in reality is the worst of all evils because it prolongs the torments of man.
One must still have chaos in oneself to be able to give birth to a dancing star.



The true man wants two things: danger and play. For that reason he wants woman, as the most dangerous plaything.


It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages.



The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. If you try it, you will be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself.



That which does not kill us makes us stronger.



We love life, not because we are used to living but because we are used to loving.


When one has not had a good father, one must create one.


In every real man a child is hidden that wants to play.


Insanity in individuals is something rare - but in groups, parties, nations and epochs, it is the rule.



Thoughts are the shadows of our feelings - always darker, emptier and simpler.


We have art in order not to die of the truth.


The best weapon against an enemy is another enemy.



Go up close to your friend, but do not go over to him! We should also respect the enemy in our friend.



The most common lie is that which one lies to himself; lying to others is relatively an exception.



It is my ambition to say in ten sentences what others say in a whole book.



I assess the power of a will by how much resistance, pain, torture it endures and knows how to turn to its advantage.




We often refuse to accept an idea merely because the tone of voice in which it has been expressed is unsympathetic to us.




On the mountains of truth you can never climb in vain: either you will reach a point higher up today, or you will be training your powers so that you will be able to climb higher tomorrow.



There are no facts, only interpretations.


Perhaps I know best why it is man alone who laughs; he alone suffers so deeply that he had to invent laughter.



You must have chaos within you to give birth to a dancing star.



Many are stubborn in pursuit of the path they have chosen, few in pursuit of the goal.



One ought to hold on to one's heart; for if one lets it go, one soon loses control of the head too.



Those who cannot understand how to put their thoughts on ice should not enter into the heat of debate.




We should consider every day lost on which we have not danced at least once. And we should call every truth false which was not accompanied by at least one laugh.




He who fights with monsters might take care lest he thereby become a monster. Is not life a hundred times too short for us to bore ourselves?



Shared joys make a friend, not shared sufferings.



Glance into the world just as though time were gone: and everything crooked will become straight to you.



It is always consoling to think of suicide: in that way one gets through many a bad night.



A good writer possesses not only his own spirit but also the spirit of his friends.



He who cannot give anything away cannot feel anything either.




All credibility, all good conscience, all evidence of truth come only from the senses.



Fear is the mother of morality.





Art is the proper task of life.



One may sometimes tell a lie, but the grimace that accompanies it tells the truth.



To forget one's purpose is the commonest form of stupidity.




Convictions are more dangerous foes of truth than lies.



For art to exist, for any sort of aesthetic activity to exist, a certain physiological precondition is indispensable: intoxication.



The future influences the present just as much as the past.


Character is determined more by the lack of certain experiences than by those one has had.


What do you regard as most humane? To spare someone shame.



What can everyone do? Praise and blame. This is human virtue, this is human madness.



The doer alone learneth.




Whatever is done for love always occurs beyond good and evil.




Talking much about oneself can also be a means to conceal oneself.




Success has always been a great liar.




Extreme positions are not succeeded by moderate ones, but by contrary extreme positions.




When a hundred men stand together, each of them loses his mind and gets another one.




In the consciousness of the truth he has perceived, man now sees everywhere only the awfulness or the absurdity of existence and loathing seizes him.




Of all that is written, I love only what a person has written with his own blood.



Do whatever you will, but first be such as are able to will.



Nothing has been purchased more dearly than the little bit of reason and sense of freedom which now constitutes our pride.



Fanatics are picturesque, mankind would rather see gestures than listen to reasons.



At times one remains faithful to a cause only because its opponents do not cease to be insipid.



He who laughs best today, will also laughs last.




Idleness is the parent of psychology.




Not when truth is dirty, but when it is shallow, does the enlightened man dislike to wade into its waters.




There is an innocence in admiration; it is found in those to whom it has never yet occurred that they, too, might be admired some day.



We do not hate as long as we still attach a lesser value, but only when we attach an equal or a greater value.



I still live, I still think: I still have to live, for I still have to think.




Many a man fails as an original thinker simply because his memory is too good.



This is the hardest of all: to close the open hand out of love, and keep modest as a giver.




If a woman possesses manly virtues one should run away from her; and if she does not possess them she runs away from herself.




No one lies so boldly as the man who is indignant.




He that humbleth himself wishes to be exalted.






In the last analysis, even the best man is evil: in the last analysis, even the best woman is bad.




Sleeping is no mean art: for its sake one must stay awake all day.



Love matches, so called, have illusion for their father and need for their mother.



Necessity is not an established fact, but an interpretation.



For the woman, the man is a means: the end is always the child.





The world itself is the will to power - and nothing else! And you yourself are the will to power - and nothing else!




The bad gains respect through imitation, the good loses it especially in art.




To be ashamed of one's immorality: that is a step on the staircase at whose end one is also ashamed of one's morality.




One often contradicts an opinion when what is uncongenial is really the tone in which it was conveyed.





Genteel women suppose that those things do not really exist about which it is impossible to talk in polite company.



The desire to annoy no one, to harm no one, can equally well be the sign of a just as of an anxious disposition.




Whoever despises himself nonetheless respects himself as one who despises.



The irrationality of a thing is no argument against its existence, rather a condition of it.




When art dresses in worn-out material it is most easily recognized as art.



Every man is a creative cause of what happens, a primum mobile with an original movement.



Great indebtedness does not make men grateful, but vengeful; and if a little charity is not forgotten, it turns into a gnawing worm.




The lie is a condition of life.




What? You seek something? You wish to multiply yourself tenfold, a hundredfold? You seek followers? Seek zeros!




One has to pay dearly for immortality; one has to die several times while one is still alive.




Before the effect one believes in different causes than one does after the effect.



In everything one thing is impossible: rationality.




Regarding life, the wisest men of all ages have judged alike: it is worthless.




Our vanity is hardest to wound precisely when our pride has just been wounded.




Wit is the epitaph of an emotion.




Whoever has provoked men to rage against him has always gained a party in his favor, too.




What is good? All that heightens the feeling of power, the will to power, power itself in man.



Not necessity, not desire - no, the love of power is the demon of men. Let them have everything - health, food, a place to live, entertainment - they are and remain unhappy and low-spirited: for the demon waits and waits and will be satisfied.




It is good to express a thing twice right at the outset and so to give it a right foot and also a left one. Truth can surely stand on one leg, but with two it will be able to walk and get around.




Judgments, value judgments concerning life, for or against, can in the last resort never be true: they possess value only as symptoms, they come into consideration only as symptoms - in themselves such judgments are stupidities.




Nothing is beautiful, only man: on this piece of naivete rests all aesthetics, it is the first truth of aesthetics. Let us immediately add its second: nothing is ugly but degenerate man - the domain of aesthetic judgment is therewith defined.




In the course of history, men come to see that iron necessity is neither iron nor necessary.




In praise there is more obtrusiveness than in blame.




You say it is the good cause that hallows even war? I say unto you: it is the good war that hallows any cause.




There is a rollicking kindness that looks like malice.




There are various eyes. Even the Sphinx has eyes: and as a result there are various truths, and as a result there is no truth.




When one has a great deal to put into it a day has a hundred pockets.




To use the same words is not a sufficient guarantee of understanding; one must use the same words for the same genus of inward experience; ultimately one must have one's experiences in common.




Art is not merely an imitation of the reality of nature, but in truth a metaphysical supplement to the reality of nature, placed alongside thereof for its conquest.




Man...cannot learn to forget, but hangs on the past: however far or fast he runs, that chain runs with him.



When one has finished building one's house, one suddenly realizes that in the process one has learned something that one really needed to know in the worst way - before one began.



Our treasure lies in the beehive of our knowledge. We are perpetually on the way thither, being by nature winged insects and honey gatherers of the mind.



War has always been the grand sagacity of every spirit which has grown too inward and too profound; its curative power lies even in the wounds one receives.



The aphorism in which I am the first master among Germans, are the forms of 'eternity'; my ambition is to say in ten sentences what everyone else says in a book - what everyone else does not say in a book.



When you look into an abyss, the abyss also looks into you.


When marrying, ask yourself this question: Do you believe that you will be able to converse well with this person into your old age? Everything else in marriage is transitory.






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2014년 1월 8일 수요일

(Quote) Charlie Chaplin



  • A day without laughter is a day wasted.
    • Variant: The most wasted day of all is that in which we have not laughed.
    • Similar statements have also been attributed to others, including E. E. Cummings
  • Actors search for rejection. If they don't get it they reject themselves.
  • All my pictures are built around the idea of getting in trouble and so giving me the chance to be desperately serious in my attempt to appear as a normal little gentleman.
  • Despair is a narcotic. It lulls the mind into indifference.
  • Failure is unimportant. It takes courage to make a fool of oneself.
    • Variant: Failure is unimportant. It takes courage to make a fool of yourself.
  • I am applauded, because everybody understands me; you are applauded, because nobody understands you.
    • addressed to Albert Einstein
  • I am known in parts of the world by people who have never heard of Jesus Christ.
  • I consider myself a citizen of the world!
    • On why he had never become a U.S. citizen.
  • I do not have much patience with a thing of beauty that must be explained to be understood. If it does need additional interpretation by someone other than the creator, then I question whether it has fulfilled its purpose.
  • I don't believe that the public knows what it wants; this is the conclusion that I have drawn from my career.
  • I have no further use for America. I wouldn't go back there if Jesus Christ was President.
    • After difficulties in being re-admitted to the United States, based on suspicions of communist sympathies.
  • I remain just one thing, and one thing only — and that is a clown. It places me on a far higher plane than any politician.
  • I thought I would dress in baggy pants, big shoes, a cane and a derby hat. everything a contradiction: the pants baggy, the coat tight, the hat small and the shoes large.
  • I went into the business for the money, and the art grew out of it. If people are disillusioned by that remark, I can't help it. It's the truth.
  • In the end, everything is a gag.
  • Laughter is the tonic, the relief, the surcease for pain.
  • Life is a tragedy when seen in close-up, but a comedy in long-shot.
  • Man as an individual is a genius. But men in the mass form the headless monster, a great, brutish idiot that goes where prodded.
  • Movies are a fad. Audiences really want to see live actors on a stage.
  • No matter how desperate the predicament is, I am always very much in earnest about clutching my cane, straightening my derby hat and fixing my tie, even though I have just landed on my head.
  • Nothing is permanent in this wicked world — not even our troubles.
  • Talkies are spoiling the oldest art in the world — the art of pantomime. They are ruining the great beauty of silence. They are defeating the meaning of the screen. (1929)
  • The basic essential of a great actor is that he loves himself in acting.
  • The saddest thing I can imagine is to get used to luxury.
  • There are more valid facts and details in works of art than there are in history books.
  • You have to believe in yourself, that's the secret. Even when I was in the orphanage, when I was roaming the street trying to find enough to eat, even then I thought of myself as the greatest actor in the world.





(Quote) Life is a tragedy




“Life is a tragedy when seen in close-up, but a comedy in long-shot.”



- Charles Chaplin


2014년 1월 4일 토요일

Jodi Arias Trial & List of Objections










An objection (law) is a formal protest raised in court during a trial to disallow a witness's testimony or other evidence which would be in violation of the rules of evidence or other procedural law.

Objections by body of law[edit]

United States[edit]

This is list of objections in American law:[1]
Proper reasons for objecting to a question asked to a witness include:
  • Ambiguousconfusingmisleadingvagueunintelligible: the question is not clear and precise enough for the witness to properly answer.
  • Arguing the law: counsel is instructing the jury on the law.
  • Argumentative: the question makes an argument rather than asking a question.
  • Asked and answered: when the same attorney continues to ask the same question and they have already received an answer. Usually seen after direct, but not always.
  • Asks the jury to prejudge the evidence: the jury cannot promise to vote a certain way, even if certain facts are proved.
  • Asking a question which is not related to an intelligent exercise of a peremptory challenge or challenge for cause: if opposing counsel asks such a question during voir dire (i.e. the jury selection process.)
  • Assumes facts not in evidence: the question assumes something as true for which no evidence has been shown.
  • Badgering: counsel is antagonizing the witness in order to provoke a response, either by asking questions without giving the witness an opportunity to answer or by openly mocking the witness.
  • Best evidence rule: requires that the original source of evidence is required, if available; for example, rather than asking a witness about the contents of a document, the actual document should be entered into evidence. Full original document should be introduced into evidence instead of a copy, but judges often allow copies if there is no dispute about authenticity. Some documents are exempt by hearsay rules of evidence.[2]
  • Beyond the scope: A question asked during cross-examination has to be within the scope of direct, and so on.
  • Calls for a conclusion: the question asks for an opinion rather than facts.
  • Calls for speculation: the question asks the witness to guess the answer rather than to rely on known facts.
  • Compound question: multiple questions asked together.
  • Hearsay: the witness does not know the answer personally but heard it from another. However, there are several exceptions to the rule against hearsay in most legal systems.[2]
  • Incompetent: the witness is not qualified to answer the question.
  • Inflammatory: the question is intended to cause prejudice.
  • Leading question (Direct examination only): the question suggests the answer to the witness. Leading questions are permitted if the attorney conducting the examination has received permission to treat the witness as a hostile witness. Leading questions are also permitted on cross-examination, as witnesses called by the opposing party are presumed hostile.
  • Narrative: the question asks the witness to relate a story rather than state specific facts.
  • Privilege: the witness may be protected by law from answering the question.
  • Irrelevant or immaterial: the question is not about the issues in the trial.
  • Misstates evidence / misquotes witness / improper characterization of evidence: this objection is often overruled, but can be used to signal a problem to witness, judge and jury.[3]
  • Counsel is testifying: this is objection sometimes used when counsel is “leading” or “argumentative” or “assumes facts not in evidence.”
Proper reasons for objecting to material evidence include:
  • Lack of foundation: the evidence lacks testimony as to its authenticity or source.
  • Fruit of the poisonous tree: the evidence was obtained illegally, or the investigative methods leading to its discovery were illegal.
  • Incomplete: opposing party only introducing part of the writing (conversation/act/declaration), taken out of context. Under the evidence rule providing for completeness, other party can move to introduce additional parts.[4] If any documents presented for the review, the judge and other party entitled to a complete copy, not a partial copy, of the document. When a witness is presented with a surprise document, he should be able to take time to study it, before he can answer any questions.
  • Best evidence rule or hearsay evidence: requires that the original source of evidence is required, if available. However, some documents are self-authenticating under Rule 902, such as (1) domestic public documents under seal, (2) domestic public documents not under seal, but bearing a signature of a public officer, (3) foreign public documents, (4) certified copies of public records, (5) official publications, (6) newspapers and periodicals, (7) trade inscriptions and the like, (8) acknowledged documents (i.e. by a notary public), (9) commercial paper and related documents, (10) presumptions under Acts of Congress, (11) certified domestic records of regularly conducted activity, (12) certified foreign records of regularly conducted activity.[2]
  • More prejudicial than probative: Under Federal Rule of Evidence 403, a judge has the discretion to exclude evidence if "its probative value is substantially outweighed by the danger of unfair prejudice, confusion of the issues, or misleading the jury."
Proper reasons for objecting to a witness's answer include:
  • Narrative: the witness is relating a story in response to a question that does not call for one.
  • Non-responsive: the witness's response constitutes an answer to a question other than the one that was asked, or no answer at all
  • Nothing pending: the witness continues to speak on matters irrelevant to the question.
Example: “Did your mother call?” “Yeah. She called at 3:00." Opposing counsel can object to the latter part of this statement, since it answers a question that was not asked. With some concern for annoying the court, counsel will selectively use this to prevent a witness from getting into self-serving answers.






2014년 1월 3일 금요일

Thoughts about Money



It's nice to make a lot of money.

But there is a difference between using money for your own benefit and being a slave to money.

If you have to spend 20, 30 years of your life doing stuff that you don't want to do for money, what kind of life are you living?

aren't you just being a slave to money by sacrificing (wasting) your life away?


Never ever be a slave to money.

Use it to make your life better. But don't live for the sake of money.




Morality Without God




without God, the only morality that can exist is egoism based on one's survival. we are all animals if we are without God. all other moralities are delusions which can be justified by needs and wants. 

these needs and wants can be controlled by fear of punishment (i.e. law) and delusion (i.e. religion, love, culture). we need God so that we can become 'human.' without God, we are mere animals who can only act civilized because of the fear of punishment or the delusion that there is such thing as good and evil.

without God, all morals are subjective opinions. without God, there's no need to have moral at all.





2014년 1월 2일 목요일

(Speech) The Wolf of Wall Street









"Wealthy people run towards fear while poor people run away from it."



1. Vision (Not a mere goal, but a vision that you can touch it and smell it)

2. State (Positive state, mentality, attitude)


Break your 'limiting' belief that limits your potential



2014년 1월 1일 수요일

Being More Convincing and Competent



Some helpful and fun videos about how to be assertive.

(I own nothing)







W.I.M.P

Weak Indecisive Moody Person


1. Confront the issue.
(Describe your unhappiness. Explain what you want to see change)

2. Do's and Don't's
(Don't: lose your temper, make judgments,
 Do: Stand up tall and make eye contacts. Use "I" statements. Do own your feelings.)

3. Stay on your track.

(Consider new information and re-evaluate.)

4. Just say "no".

(Say 'no' to unreasonable requests.
Repeat the request.
Explain why you said "no".)








"If you want to gather honey, don't kick over the beehive."


1. State the facts

2. Assert yourself "say 'no' clearly."

3. Stay focused. Maintain your position and don't get side-tracked.

4. Look assertive. Tone of voice and body language. (Don't be hostile or insulting).





Here's some excerpts from other websites:

http://lifehacker.com/5906546/how-can-i-be-more-convincing-and-get-anything-i-want

http://www.fastcompany.com/3020234/leadership-now/looks-can-be-convincing-to-get-promoted-just-appear-competent



Structure Your Request in the Optimal Order


(Don't start your request like this)
Hi [INSERT NAME HERE],
Haven't seen you in years. I hope you're doing well. Congratulations on all you've been doing. It's really amazing! We should grab coffee sometime. If you could do me a favor, I'm in an online contest where I can win a big prize and I was wondering if you'd vote for me. Hope you're well, talk to you soon.
Thanks!
[ME]P
All the pleasantries fall short because they're preempting a request, so it sounds like you're saying all of that stuff because you want something and not because you mean it. Here's the same letter in the opposite order:
(P
Hi [INSERT NAME HERE],
I'm hoping you could vote for me in an online contest where I can win a big prize for my work. I haven't seen you in years. I hope you're doing well. Congratulations on all you've been doing. It's really amazing! We should grab coffee sometime.
Thanks!
[ME]P
Suddenly the pleasantries feel more genuine because you asked for what you wanted, then got to the buttery stuff. It feels real because it isn't colored by something else you want. If you're trying to convince someone to do something for you, just ask. Get to the other stuff afterwards and everything you say will be more effective.P

Require as Little Decision Making as Possible


The longer we deliberate and the harder we think, the more we deplete our willpower. And because willpower is a finite resource, we get stressed more and more easily as it's depleted. 

 If you need help from somebody, don't ask them to make a complex decision. You want to make that decision as simple as possible.



Let's say, for example, you want a friend tohelp you move to a new home. Simply making the request is the best option. Tell them when the move is, how much help you're going to need, and leave it at that. You want to avoid things like suggesting different moving dates and picking the one that best suits their schedule. That gives them a more difficult decision to make, they'll think about their choice a little more, and it'll stress them out just a little bit more. While additional decision making isn't always going to earn you a "no," it doesn't help. Pile on too many choices—even if they're well-intentioned and meant to help the person you're asking—and you'll hurt your chances of getting the result you want.



Ask for What You Want Right After Lunch

(or while eating. empty stomach increases the chance that the person will say "no".)



Don't Talk So Much

When you say something complex, and people aren't getting it, it's not going to help, generally, to say additional complex stuff. Before you start talking, take a minute to think about how to communicate the essence of your message in a simple way.


http://lifehacker.com/5906546/how-can-i-be-more-convincing-and-get-anything-i-want






LOOKS CAN BE CONVINCING: TO GET PROMOTED, JUST APPEAR COMPETENT


How so? Think about why brainstorming has a loudmouth problem: The person with the best ideas isn't the one who gets heard most. Rather, it's the most assertive person--unless you find a way to correct it.


if you're confident when you join a group, you'll be more assertive when you first start talking. As a result, you'll look more able to everybody--and thus take the top spot in the freshly formed pecking order.











2014 Mindset




I need -> I want -> I WILL